Once the baby is born, self-care is more essential than ever. One of the most cherished forms of self-care is an in-home massage with Mommyssage. A topic that might seem trivial to some but is significant to others: is the decision to lock the door during your session.

Locking the door while receiving an in-home massage is about creating a distraction-free environment. For those with toddlers, the need for this barrier becomes even more apparent. Toddlers are naturally curious, and their sense of wonder often leads them to explore new and unfamiliar situations—like when mom receives a massage at home. While this curiosity is a wonderful part of their development, it can come at inopportune times.

Assuming that there is a caregiver present to attend to your kid’s needs, locking the door can be a necessary part of the experience! When you lock the door, you ensure that your time for relaxation remains uninterrupted by inquisitive little ones. Children might not understand that their mother needs a little time alone. By securing the door, you establish a clear boundary, signaling to your children that this is a special time for you—a moment to unwind and recharge.

If you’re anxious about potential interruptions from your children, you may remain tense. By locking the door, you create a space where your mind and body can let go of worries, enhancing the healing process.

Locking the door during your in-home massage doesn’t mean you do not love them! Instead,  you’re teaching your children the importance of personal time and self-care—a valuable lesson they can carry into adulthood. It’s also allowing your partner to parent and build trust with your children.

Locking the door during an in-home massage is a perfectly reasonable choice rooted in ensuring a distraction-free, peaceful environment. It’s teaching your children the value of personal care and boundaries. It allows you to create a protected, serene space where you can fully benefit from the therapeutic experience.